It's sad to hear the feedback you left the last minute of the review period. Daisy informed us that you were surprised about the location when you got to our place and we wish you reached out to us despite of our absence due to work and emergency matter. It's surprising to hear how dreadful you are of the location when in fact, everything is in our listing. There is even a map, and that is the purpose of the map - to show you where the location is.
This appears to be a result of lack of planning prior to your trip and not reading the listing at all. Also, we have so many guests who get to enjoy not only the city but other places around the island, and you may resort to reading previous reviews as a proof. If you communicated, we could have at least informed you that you don't need to leave at 3am for Manjuyod Sandbar. We organize trips from our place and we usually leave at 8am, and it's great. :) Our accommodations are self-catering. Our listing also already advises you to buy the stuff you need in advance as it is not in Dumaguete, but again, failure to read. The beach can also be accessed. We were hosting a group of 10 during your stay and they were at the beach. You just didn't open the gate which we of course close when nobody's going out.
As a non-frequent Airbnb traveler, we suggest carefully checking the place you are booking, orientating yourself a little about the place by reading the details in the listing, and reaching out to your host if you have concerns. We advise you to respect the place of your host, that a part of the Airbnb concept. Your future hosts would appreciate that.